August 2007

QotD: First Crush

How old were you when you had your very first boyfriend/girlfriend? Do you still know them now? 
Submitted by KIM

I went through all of my high school years sans boyfriend.  I was everybody's friend, the guys especially, since I didn't really get along well with other girls, but never anyone's girlfriend.  Probably didn't help that I grew up as a fly on the rice if you know what I mean.  Anywho, my first (real) date and my first boyfriend was my daughter's father.  I still know him, I just don't know where he is and heaven help him if I find him.  Deadbeat.

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Heaven. Oh, what is, heaven? I'll take Stupid Answers for $200.

Every weeknight at 7:30, we sit down for dinner and we watch Jeopardy.  Typically, my daughter gets mad because my boyfriend and I are fountains of useless knowledge and when she knows the answer, she can't get it out faster than we do.  If you know Jeopardy, you know that sometimes they have kids, or college kids, and sometimes, celebs.  We hate celebrity Jeopardy.  Sure it's great that they're playing for charity, but more often than not, the questions are outrageously simple.  I watch Jeopardy for the brain workout and that's the same reason I don't watch Wheel of Fortune.

Well, I don't remember what the category was, but the clue went a little something like this:

Andrew Jackson, when on his deathbed, said he would see his slaves in this place.

Right?  Simple?  Heaven.  Nice guy that AJ.  Not so nice two gals and one guy sitting in our living room because I shout out, "That great cotton field in the sky!"  I think at that point, my daughter swallowed a mouthful of pasta without chewing.  Being who we are, we can't let it go with just that.  Lovey chips in with, "See all those puffy clouds up there?  You'll still be picking!"  At this point, Kiddie is nearly in tears and we all have a great giggle.

It was funny!  Really!  We'll be there all week.

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Vox Hunt: This Album Is All Good

Audio: Share an album in your collection that's a classic from the first to the last cut (no need to use the skip button).  Submitted by Cortadito

I'm sure this won't ring true for everyone, but this isn't about everyone, it's about me.  In my sophmore year of high school is when I really started getting into, what was then, the rock scene.  I was never any good at being "black".   I couldn't dance or sing or any of the other stereotypical things black folks should be able to do.  Could've come from living in tiny, suburban, white-bread America.  Anywho, I loved me some rock and roll.  I give full credit to Brian Lemley, wherever he is, for intoducing me to one of my all time favorites:

Back then, all the boys could keep their drug issues in check and produce the hits.  The album is a great energy builder, although it could be the energy of all of your cells trying to escape your body.  Great for working out and actually pretty good for relieving stress if you just let yourself scream along with Axl and the guitars.  I find that these meds are best delivered to your body and mind if taken with a beer.

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QotD: [this is home]

Where do you consider home?  Is it the place you grew up; the place you're currently living?  Why is it home?
Submitted by uncagedbird

Funny that you should ask this QotD.  I've had this arguement with many people whilst living in different places.  When I lived in New York for two years, I never called it home.  Don't get me wrong, I loved NY (minus the reason I moved there), but it was never home.  I've now lived in Miami for going on three years and it is also not home.

Home is, was, and will always be at 245 Van Meter Road, Belle Vernon, PA, no matter who lives there now.  As long as that house stands, it will be home.  It's home because that's where I grew up.  It's home because I got to watch that house get built from the ground up.  It's home because that's where all my childhood memories are, the good and the bad.  It's home because that house, that yard, and that neighborhood are all a part of who I am today.  It's home because it's the only place where I've had my own space.  It's home because that's where my heart is.

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QotD: Past Five Working Years

How many jobs have you had in the past five years? Where and what did you do? 
Submitted by M.  

It's been a slow five years for me as I've only had four jobs.  Some overlapped.

Right now, and since January of 2006, I've been the queen of scissors and staples on Miami Beach.  I'll stick around here a while as I may soon have a new title.

Between December of 2004 and December of 2005, I was an administrative/personal assistant/website designer/house sitter/dog sitter for a rockin real estate broker here in south Florida.  Great gig.  I could wear whatever I wanted, ride my bike to work, shower there if I needed/wanted to, hop in the pool, play with the dog.  She's doing great still.  Hooray for her.  During the time I was working for her, I also ran the hostess stand at a local restaurant.  Who knew they'd pay $12 an hour just to put people in their seats.  Hell, that's more than some office jobs pay down here.  Meh, I'm good at that sorta thing.

Prior to that, I did the Club Med thing.  October of 2000 through November of 2004.  Search my tags for Club Med for wonderful stories from those years.

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