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QotD: Also Known As

What other names did your parents consider for you?

I am fortunate to be blessed cursed with a name that people can't ever seem to pronounce right.  Thank you, mother.  You see, about 34 years ago, my parents had this discussion regarding what to name me.  My father wanted to name me something majestic.  Keep in mind that this is the early 70s and my parents liked the wacky tobaccky.  His choice?  First name, Sierra, middle name, Nevada.  Yes, like the mountains.

 

When I look back on this, sometimes I wish that Dad had won this war.  In his honor, I'm picking up and moving closer to those mountains.  Ok, that's not exactly true.  I am moving but the original purpose was not in his honor.  But it is now.

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QotD: I'll Have The Usual

If a waiter stopped by right now to take your order, what cocktail or drink are you having?

It's 5 o'clock somewhere and therefore I would like a lemon drop martini.  Please sugar my rim (huh, now that sounds nasty) and use Ketel One Citrone.  Thank you.  By the way, keep your hands off the top half of my glass or I'm sending it back.

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QotD: Deal Breakers

What are your deal breakers in a relationship?

There will be no abuse in this relationship.  Don't you dare lay a hand on me and don't think that you're smart enough to lay some mental abuse on me.  I've been there and I've done that so I know what to look out for. 

And for those of you who look down your noses as women in abusive relationships asking "Why doesn't she just leave?", stop it.  Unless you're in her shoes, you have nothing to say.  If she survives the relationship, she'll be 1000 times stronger than she was when she went into it.  I'm not condoning absuive relationships by any means and please, if you are a witness to abuse, step up (but carefully) and say something, preferably to her as not to anger him more, but don't just stand by and watch it happen.

I have never thanked you because you were not worthy of thanks and I only thank you now, RMS, because you showed me what not to allow myself to get into.  You're everything that every woman should avoid and you should probably get some psychological attention.

Women, stand tall and let no man (or woman) tell you that you are less than a person.  Let no one lay a hand upon you in anger for that is not their place.  Only when you are complete in yourself and love yourself will a partner arise for you who will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve.

I speak from experience.

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QotD: How I'll Spend My Summer Vacation

Are you taking a vacation this summer (or this season)?  Where are you headed and who's going with you?

 

 I was just counting down to vacation this morning, actually.  School will be out soon and so my daughter is going to do a little vacation time with my mom.  During her vacation there, my love and I will be spending one week in beautiful Key Largo, FL.  Activities to include:

  • sleeping in
  • drinking
  • going out on the boat
  • getting nekkid
  • drinking (me not him, he's driving)
  • RELAXING

After that, we come back to reality for a couple months.  In September though, we're taking a little road trip to Club Med for a weekend of meeting new folks and me catching up with a bunch of folks I already know.  Ex-GO reunion!!  If you know what that means and don't know the details, drop me a line and I'll fill you in!

Back to reality for a few more months before the BIG vacation in January.  Park City, Utah, here we come!  This place is so super awesome that I cannot wait to go.  They offer a one day class that guarantees that you'll be ready to get on and off the lift by yourself and take on some gentle greens the day after class.  Kiddie and Lovey are going to that while I take a class on shredding on my board.

Oh how I can't wait for vacation!!

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